LoveIN'YourLife Coaching Program

Are you a high achieving woman of faith, over 40, tired of 'doing life alone,' not having love in your life, because you are not sure what to do and where to start?

I invite you to LoveIN’YourLife, my signature dating and love coaching program. I created this one-year mentorship coaching program to support high-achieving women in their journey to attracting, finding, and building love while living their best lives today.

Enrollment is now open and closes on March 7th 2025. The 8-week intensive kicks off on March 9th 2025. 

 Single women tell me all the time....

that they have not dated or been in a relationship for years because they spent a significant number of their younger years being hung up over one guy, who they knew was never right for them in the first place.

As a result, they become passive about their love life and decide to leave love to chance. Instead, they work to excel in other areas of their lives, such as their careers, businesses, health, and emotional well-being.

The common themes that I have observed as to why many women over 40 place their love life on the back burner are that they are afraid of making similar mistakes. They are also terrified of wasting more time in non-starter relationships. They genuinely do not know where or how to meet good guys and start dating.

So they focus their time and energy on their everyday routines, excelling in their careers and business, eating right and working out, going to therapy and other great wellness programs, reading books, and being present for their family and close friends. Though they rarely admit it out loud, deep down, they long to be coupled with a great partner who compliments them.

They are tired of 'doing life alone’.

They wish that somehow, a remarkable man would just appear in their lives with whom they could share love, companionship, extraordinary adventures, and discoveries.

 I get it!

I was in the same place as well. It took me ten years of not being on a single date to realize that if I stayed on this path, I would miss out on what I truly desired, a healthy, lasting love to share my life with.

And this is why I felt obligated to create my LoveIN’YourIife signature coaching program, which is the ultimate solution for women over 40 who desire love in their lives. In this program, I coach you on the exact action steps you need to take to find, attract and build a lasting love while living and enjoying your life to the fullest.

What women who desire love miss is that while reading books and taking 'do it yourself' courses may provide great information, finding the love you want requires experiential learning by taking tangible, inspired, and guided action. That is what the LoveIN’YourLIfe coaching program is about. My LoveIN’YourLife coaching system will give you the lessons, tools, and practical road map you need to get on the SURE path to achieving your relationship dreams and goals.

What's Included? 

The LoveINYourLife Course  

Immediate access to my LoveINYourLIfe course that will help you learn and master how to attract, find and build lasting love through 7 action steps. The course consists of over 30 pre-recorded lessons, with practical action items for you to complete. The curriculum is laid out in the following 7 modules:

Module 1 : Experiencing a fulfilling and vibrant life for yourself by creating a new life vision, love vision, and fun-filled life that you will enjoy, with or without a man.

Module 2: Building your “woman substance” to become a high-value woman that attracts high-quality/high-value men.

Module 3 : Changing your mindset and misbeliefs around men, dating, and love.

Module 4 : Mastering the art of having great conversations with both men and women to continually improve your interpersonal and social skills.

Module 5 : Dating with an abundance mindset, ease, flow, and fun in a rotation of high-quality men.

Module 6 : Learning how to choose the right man for YOU.

Module 7 : Growing and nurturing lasting love.

2 Months Live Group Coaching Calls to Get You Ready to Date 

You will have 8 live weekly group coaching sessions for 2 months, this will be an intensive process where I help you get ready for dating to attract the partner you desire. I will help you come have the clarity of what you are and what you want as well as your life vision, purpose, values and requirements, needs and wants of a partner. I will also help you come up with a dating plan of where to meet potential partners be it offline or on line. I will also coach you on how to build your confidence so that wherever you go when in social places you can attract quality men who could be potential partners.

BONUS: 10 Months Dating Support!

After the 2 months intensive, you will have 10 months of unlimited text and voice message support to help you navigate the dating world and once a month group coaching session for Q&A support. I will coach you on how to interact with new men when you feel unsure of what to say, act or behave. I will help you remain true to authentic self and the dating boundaries that you have created so that you can meet the partner you truly desire

Life Time Access 

You will have lifetime access to the LoveIN’YourLife curriculum (including any future updates) and the LoveIN'YourLife FaceBook community. 

But don’t just take my word for it; read what the ladies I have worked with are saying…

“I have gained so much confidence because I know myself much better.

I'm free because not all men I talk to will be my husband; that pressure is no more. I'm comfortable talking to men without expecting anything from them.

I'm enjoying my life more by doing what I love; no more waiting for someone else to make my life exciting. My conversations have improved, and I'm more aware of what I'm looking for, values"-  E. M.

“I learned that I must first build a fun, dynamic, interesting, fulfilling life. Then date lots of people to determine what I really like about them based on my values. Instead of settling for the "first nice" guy that I come across" -  G. H

"There were several Aha moments for me during the dating class. I think the biggest one was the mental paradigm shift that men are generally good people and not just sex maniacs who want to take take… but have desires like we do, and it's okay. We are just different, so we need to learn them. Hence dating/relationship skills are vital skills to have. The class helped me navigate various relationship spaces as well.

The second big one was that I can and should date more than one guy. This was always something that sounded like "cheating". But again, realizing that we are just getting to know men in general, and we need to do the work, was a great mindset shift I made." -  D. M.

"When I started this course, I knew I needed to be out there to get a good guy. But being in this class taught me that it takes more than just being out there to get a suitable mate.

When I signed up, I had already dipped my feet, so to speak, in a relationship, and I even wondered whether I should have paid. But Wambui encouraged me to stay put ...I could just learn something.. And boy did I?

I also learned that I'm the chooser, not necessarily the chosen one. So when my boyfriend started going somehow quiet and out dates got sporadic, I knew it was time to step back. I knew the kind of relationship I wanted and this wasn't it.

I'm now happy to wait for the right man. One who shares my interests and aligns with my values. In the meantime, I do me while living life to the fullest.

Being out there means you need to be the best version of yourself. Fall in love with being you. Do what you love, enjoy, dream about, and let your mate find you there...not waiting to 'do life' when you get hooked up." - R.M.

“I am so glad I decided to take this class with Charity. I learned a whole lot. We learned practical self-discovery exercises that can apply to all areas of your life, not just your love life. Refining my goals and vision, learning to present myself, and tackling my fears head-on are most valuable to me. After all, life challenges don't get easier. Having a plan and knowing how to present the best version of yourself is vital. I felt a sigh of relief on discovering I'm not the only one who gets nervous or anxious about everyday situations, not just in dating. To my surprise, we also learned that the guys are just as nervous as the ladies, and they fear rejection. We are on a level playing field, and it was comforting to know this. To tackle this common fear, Charity taught us different tools we can use, which gave me confidence. A lot of times, when we don't know what to do, we tend to shy away and run from the problem. I can't say that now. I'm encouraged and feel more equipped than ever. In the dating world, we debunked some common myths and understood more about the whole dating experience. We learned how to maximize your chances of finding "the one ."This was quite an aha moment since we tend to think that we should focus on just one person at a time even when there is no commitment from both parties

All in all, my experience with the class was very rewarding, insightful, and simplified, so the whole dating experience didn't feel daunting. I highly recommend spending some time with Coach Charity; it will be worth it." --J.N.

“I was a very shy girl before joining the love and dating class in 2021. The class had many experiences that included conversing with both male and female strangers. The numbers increased as we moved along and this not only increased my bravery but also opened up the way I interact with men in general.

Another impactful moment in my life during the experience was beginning the journey toward discovering my life's purpose. Developing a vision board for my dream life is one thing that I'd have never thought about, thanks to Wambui Cavanaugh. This has helped me gain clarity on my life's goals”.   - N.M.

"I truly benefited from being in Charity's love class. She teaches practical ways to navigate the murky dating world. She uses the same blueprint that helped her attract and land her high-quality man. She knows and lives what she teaches.

She helped me with my mindset first, then gave me practical methods that worked for me and my lifestyle. I am grateful to her for making me realize that dating can be fun and not as daunting as I had believed for a while. That there are good men and I need to put myself out there with the right tools and intention to attract and keep the man of my dreams". -  S.G

"By the time I joined the class, I was this person would prequalify men even on a dating site. I didn't allow myself to meet a guy if they were not a Christian or even if there's something I didn't like about them (like smoking).
I learnt that not every date has to lead to a relationship and going on these dates was something I needed to enjoy doing, plus I could end up learning something new about myself while at it. I started enjoying these dates more.
Now I know that a date doesn't have to lead to anything serious but if it does, I'm ready for it!" - H.W.